Muggles and Wrock

In my last article about wizard rock and work, Jarrod of Gred and Forge told me about how his employers had Googled him and discovered he was in a wizard rock band. One of our commenters, Jennofwashington, brought up an interesting point. “How much do you disclose immediately about your involvement in a fandom?” She meant in the work environment, but it got me to thinking about the reactions that people have when you talk about wizard rock.

I don’t know about most people in the fandom, but about 99% of my life is spent with Muggles. This is not to say that my friends and family aren’t fans of the Harry Potter books. After all, I have spent 6+ years bullying anyone I know into reading them, and no one has ever come back to complain it was a waste of time. On the other hand, nor has anyone ever said to me “Gee, did you hear about that Harry Potter con? We should go!” or started a sentence with “I was reading theories about Snape still being alive the other day…”. Those are things that I say. I’ve found that reactions to my fandom involvement with wizard rock come in three forms: enthusiasm, acceptance, and judgment.

The people who tend to be most enthusiastic are people who have their own brand of “fandom” themselves, be it science fiction lovers, comic book readers, live action role players, or members of other fandoms. For them, liking wizard rock is not any different than waiting anxiously for the next issue of Secret Invasion or dressing up in tabbards and beating their friends with PVC pipe covered in foam. I am lucky to have several people like this in my life. Their motto is, “It’s awesome that you’ve found something you love so much!” Conversations with these people go something like this:

Me: I got my wizard rock EP of the month shipment today!
Them: Sweet! Anything good?
Me: Yeah, I like all of them.
Them: Cool. Did I tell you about that awesome girl I met at Pennsic?

The acceptance group comprises most of the people I know. These are people that accept that I’ve got this Harry Potter “thing”, but would never directly ask me about it. It’s just one of my quirks that they don’t really understand. I posted MTV’s recent story about Terminus on my personal blog to show my friends I wasn’t the only wizard rock fan. One of the responses? “Oh dear. I don’t know that that pelvic-thrusting Voldemort is helping your case…” (referring to Mark of Ministry of Magic‘s dancing during The Parselmouths‘ “Voldemort Fangirl”). Their motto is along the lines of “Freya’s a little strange, but we love her anyway.” Our conversations go something like this:

Them: I was taking a nap in the park the other day, under a tree.
Me: And Whompy stole your pillow?
Them: Wha-Whomp-huh?
Me: Sorry, it’s a wizard rock reference.
Them: Ok. (small smile) Anyway…

And then there’s the judgment. I have found some people who are just entirely close-minded to the idea that I listen to music about books. The other day I went to my local comic book store to ask them to put up a flyer about the Whomp the House Tour, Part Deux show that my local HP fan club is hosting. One of them asked me who The Whomping Willows and Justin Finch-Fletchley and the Sugar Quills were. I explained the concept of wizard rock to them. He smiled and said they would be happy to post the flyer. The other looked me up and down and smirked. Smirked! Granted, I was wearing a Gryffindor shirt, but you work in a comic book store. I can’t have been the geekiest person you’ve ever encountered! People like this seem to have the motto of, “Wow. Why would anyone would waste their time on that?” I try not to have conversations with these people.

But enough about my encounters with Muggles. I want to hear about yours! Tell me how people react to your interest in wizard rock. Does your family think you’re crazy? Is your significant other concerned that you will leave them to follow wrockers around the country? There is a Facebook group for that, by the way. Have you converted your friends to love wrock?
Email me at freya@wizrocklopedia.com, with the subject line “Muggles and wrock” and let me know. You might be featured in an upcoming article!

14 responses to “Muggles and Wrock”

  1. delma Avatar
    delma

    I can so relate.

  2. Lana Alethea Avatar
    Lana Alethea

    Great post!

    I agree totally about enthusiasm, acceptance, or judgment.

    It’s unreal the number of people I know who say things like “Hahaha, songs about books?!” then you give them a CD and they change their tune quite quickly!

    I’ve “converted” [their term not mine] quite a few of my friends into reading the books/listening to Wrock.

    Some people just don’t understand how fun the fandom is though 🙁

  3. CJ Avatar
    CJ

    I know hey? People think you’re a crack head for loving wrock. But anyone who’s heard it loooooves it. Come on! It’s just so cool. And besides, Alex Carpenter is so hot, you’ll at least love it for that!

    PS
    Love your Whompy reference, that’s hilarious

  4. The Curse Breakers Avatar

    Jessie, here!

    I loved this article! It hit home, because I had a similar ‘wizard WHAT?’ experience at work.

    Just recently, I was brought on as an intern at a WONDERFUL independent video game company. We had a big meet and greet on my first day, and during the ‘who IS this Jessie person’ convo, wizard rock came up immediately.

    At first they were dubious, but when I explained more about the heart and soul and feel of the genre? They were intrigued.

    (Oh guess what! The owner’s name? IS VOLDI! I’ll have to keep my ear to the ground, and make sure Dark Wizards aren’t afoot…)

  5. Lou Avatar

    Great article!

    Yeah, people think it’s a joke… The other day, I was with my family, and my parents were “you should get over Harry Potter and have grown up interests instead” >_<

  6. Katlin S. Avatar
    Katlin S.

    I was on a mission trip in Salt Lake City when the HBP came out and I went to the midnight party at a local B&N. The next day in the van home people were lecturing me on how evil HP is and started praying for me right then in the car. They just flipped their lids when they heard about the Wizard Rock.

  7. forest Avatar
    forest

    i have a similar problem to lou, my parents roll their eyes whenever i talk about wizard rock. i will be listening to pottercast and laughing out loud to something john or frak say and they just look at me in that special “oh my god, get a life outside of harry potter for once!!!!”

  8. Scott Humdinger Avatar

    I’ve been a bard in the SCA for almost 20 years, so this is something I’ve dealt with for a long time. I even married an “awesome girl I met at Pennsic”. 🙂

    When I worked in an office my coworkers never understood my music. It’s just that “renaissance stuff that Scott does.”

    Now my SCA friends don’t get the wrock stuff I do. It’s just that “Harry Potter stuff Efenwealt does.” 🙂

  9. Russ Avatar

    I proudly blast The Mudbloods, Gred & Forge, Whompy, The Weasel King, and a host of other bands at work. I get a few raised eyebrows every now and again, but that’s about it.

  10. Freya Avatar

    To everyone that commented/emailed me their stories, thanks so much for sharing! I’m still waiting for the day that I’m blasting wizard rock from my car and someone recognizes it, but if we all keep spreading the love, it has to happen eventually.

    @CJ: I’ll have to stress the Alex thing to my husband. Maybe he’ll at least stop the “Wizard rock again?” complaints.

    @Lou: Don’t you dare listen to them! Keep on wrockin’!

    @Scott: “I even married an “awesome girl I met at Pennsic’.” That’s fantastic! Plus, you know, being in a wrock band with her, too. Lucky. =)

    @Russ: Sounds like a pretty excellent workplace.

  11. I Was Lord Elbin Ausley Avatar

    yeah, my girlfriend definitely does not understand the wrock thing. When she heard I’d made one too she gave me “that look” (“Harry Potter, again?”). I almost got her to cave and read past the fourth book, but she’s grown up. Peter Pan and I are perfectly content to keep our youthful spirits up.

  12. Jennofwashington Avatar
    Jennofwashington

    there are so many great “muggle” stories. I love hearing them. 🙂

    here’s one of mine: I’m a youth leader for a group of middle school students…who are all VERY aware that I’m such a nerd I go to hp conventions….and they love that, about me. Some of their parents…not so much. but, hey, it’s about my students. 🙂

  13. Fran Avatar
    Fran

    The one and only good thing thing about living in Germany (and loving Wrock) is that people dont get it most of the time. You see, 80% of the music on our radio stations is in English. And people dont listen.
    So it’s not that big a deal to burst into Wrock.
    Well, of course singing “I am Harry Potter” or “I was a teenage werewolf” do draw attention to you. But generally it’s not hard to keep it secret from people, if you want to.
    One of my friends listened to Wrock for nearly an hours until she figured out that…”wait a second…Draco and Harry…what, they are sitting in a tree? What is this about??”
    Same with my dad. “Did they just sing ‘Dumbledore’?”

    My Sister gets it. I was discussing theories with her and she even took the “what will happen in book 7 – Leaky test”. She likes wrock, but I couldnt get her into it properly yet. She gave me Sorcerer’s Stone in the first place, so yeah. She kinda get’s it. 🙂

  14. geekgirl Avatar
    geekgirl

    I was totally psyched when I first found out about Wizardrock. For years now I played in a band, which is dedicated to songs about “Twin Peaks” – so the concept of expressing your fandom-love in your music is not so strange to the people around me. But I have the advantage of living in a rather geeky environment anyway 😉

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